Life is progressive when we have healthy expectations of our partners who are aware of these expectations and committed to improving the quality of our relationships rather than insisting on their opinions. Truly, it takes intentionality and mutual understanding for relationships to thrive. After a conversation with some congregants at our church where both single […]

One of the reasons people get frustrated with someone they love is this; they’re seeing more in the person than the person is delivering! When the gap between the capacity they envision & the results that are coming out is too wide, disappointed sets in. I’ve said repeatedly that, it is a destiny abomination to […]

Slow down & stop are not the same. A ‘slowing down’ object can still run into a person, while a stationary one cannot. Comma is ‘slow down’; it is the break in continuity before continuation, it creates a clause without a closure & allows for interval before arrival. Comma’s body language is ‘there is more’, […]

The heart wants what it wants and sometimes, the flesh is too weak to say no. And isn’t it true that the reason you feel like you want it is because ‘the universe’ has willed it to you? When life is happening ‘naturally’, our response should be to go with the flow! Oprah, Hmmm! Teacher, […]

People de follow people o oh! And I’m not talking about social media! Never underestimate your influence! Some people wey you wan copy de copy you too! Even people who publicly disdain you, sometimes, still learn from you! Every person is more influential than he/she can estimate! Influence is much more pronounced when you’re in […]

A ‘situationship’ story begins with, “Pastor eh, it’s complicated”.  And the devil is wondering at who really complicated it. He is like the spider that wove a web. Then the fly entered the web & while working it, got it more complicated. The pause before the chopping is the spider wondering at the fly!